As a urologist, it surprises me the amount of men that come to me, who clearly have some sort of performance anxiety, looking for something like viagra.
When the truth is this: No amount of viagra is going to open up blood vessels that have been clamped shut by cortisol and adrenaline, it is just impossible.
Yes, it might give you a confidence boost, and relieve some of the anxiety, but it can flip at any moment and stop working.
But something else I noticed was this, there was always something that triggered that performance anxiety, age, blood vessel wear, a new partner, a big lifestyle change.
And I realized the vicious loop they were trapped in, every time they had to “perform” feeding off of the last time.
So I started looking into it, researching the mechanisms behind it, and while it’s not my field of specialty, I can tell you this.
After extensive research, I realised that the underlying cause of performance anxiety can be solved, and not just by “relaxing”